THE HARD REALITIES ABOUT BEING AN EVENT PHOTOGRAPHER

Working as an event photographer can be deeply rewarding, but it also comes with its own set of challenges that many people outside the industry may not realize. In large crowds, photographers are often viewed primarily as artists or workers rather than as human beings with identities, personalities, and lives beyond the camera. This disconnect can make the profession emotionally demanding.

One of the most difficult parts of the job is how easily photographers become the default leaders in chaotic environments, even when they never agreed to take on that role. This happens because people often try to use photographers for their talent, connections, and access to shows or exclusive spaces. Many individuals only express interest when they run into a photographer at an event, even if they have their personal contact information. Outside of these moments, communication often stops entirely. This pattern reveals a hard truth: some people only reach out when they need something, when they see you, or when they believe they can benefit from your skills or network.

Building genuine, loyal friendships in the industry can be extremely challenging. Many people approach photographers not with the intent to form real relationships, but to chase clout or elevate their own status. As a photographer, you have to stay observant of how people move around you, how they treat you, and what their intentions might be. It becomes necessary to evaluate whether people appreciate you for who you are or see you solely as a resource for their own gain.

While it is understandable that clients approach photographers with a transactional mindset, the situation becomes more complicated when individuals present themselves as friends but are driven by selfish motives. Some will pretend to build a connection only to use your life, access, or credibility as a frame for their own. Many of these people will not acknowledge your contributions, credit your work, or express gratitude once they have gained what they wanted. They often disappear without a thank you, leaving photographers feeling both overlooked and undervalued.

These experiences highlight an important reality within the event photography world. Beyond the glamour and fast-paced environments, photographers must protect their energy, choose their circles wisely, and remember that their talent and presence hold significant value. Recognizing the difference between genuine connections and opportunistic relationships is crucial to navigating this industry with clarity and self-respect.